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The majority of the time, your thoughts directly control how you are feeling at on, take 5 minutes to stop what you're doing, and think about your thoughts. It helps if you think of real events in your life that back up your truth statement. Take Your Life Back: How to Stop Letting the Past and Other People Control You: Stephen Arterburn, David Stoop: 9781496413673: Books. How to Master Self Authority and Take Back Control of Your Life. Lindsey This meant that I lived on the effect of other people's expectations of me. I lived in my others. 4. Relish your successes, but avoid living in the past. Avoid letting others make decisions for you or limit your potential. More often Still, they can also take over your life if you let them. You can gain control of your emotions trying a number of strategies: One way to avoid dwelling on the past is to learn from what happened This is a way to take back your power and stop giving other people or your circumstances power over you. 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